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Let’s Talk: Choosing to Stay. Grief, Intimacy & God’s Redemption in Marriage with Jen Johnson

Rhona Rubio Season 1 Episode 3

In this raw and hope-filled episode, Rhona sits down with marriage and intimacy coach Jen Johnson to talk about the real work of restoration—when staying feels harder than walking away.

Jen shares her powerful story of facing betrayal, grief, her husband's health crisis, and the deep inner work required to rebuild trust. She opens up about letting go of self-righteousness, grieving the loss of what “should have been,” and discovering a deeper purpose on the other side of pain.

Whether you're walking through marriage challenges, personal loss, or wondering if healing is still possible—this episode is your reminder: it’s never too far gone for God to redeem.

How to hold space for those you lead:

🧭 1. Lead with presence, not pressure.

Jen’s healing didn’t come from someone trying to fix her—it came through space, time, and grace. As a leader, your steady presence creates safety. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is:

“Take the time you need—we’re with you.”

🌿 2. Normalize struggle without judgment.

When Jen shared the raw parts of her journey, she invited others to drop the mask. As a leader, you can say:

“Hard seasons don’t disqualify you. They shape you.”
This gives people permission to be human—and grow in the process.


💥 3 Reminders for High-Capacity Leaders (Inspired by Jen’s Story)

  1. Capacity isn’t immunity.
    Jen was strong, successful, and capable—but when grief and betrayal hit, even she had to slow down and heal. Being high-capacity doesn’t mean you don’t break—it means you need deeper rhythms of care.
  2. Overfunctioning isn’t leadership—it’s survival.
    Jen could have thrown herself into fixing everything fast. Instead, she chose the hard, slow work of rebuilding—letting God lead, rather than her own strength.
  3. What you build is only as strong as what you believe.
    Jen and her husband didn’t just rebuild a marriage—they rebuilt their foundation in God first. That inner restoration made room for real, lasting intimacy.


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