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BONUS EPISODE with HAVEN WEITS | Let’s Talk: Surrender. Finding Peace in Your Capacity.

Rhona Rubio Season 1 Episode 2

“Are you overextending yourself trying to do it all on your own?”
What if surrendering control is the key to sustaining your impact—not slowing it down?

In this week’s episode, I sat down with HAVEN, the founder of a nationwide Virtual Assistance company, to talk about the importance of surrendering in the midst of growth. As a high-capacity leader, HAVEN found herself in a challenging season—stretched thin, pulled in multiple directions, and questioning how to maintain balance in a culture obsessed with maximizing productivity. In this heartfelt conversation, she shares how identifying her true capacity and surrendering to a pace that was sustainable brought her the peace and clarity she needed to continue leading effectively.

HAVEN’s journey is a powerful reminder for all leaders who feel the weight of constantly striving for more—more clients, more growth, more success. She explains how letting go of the need to overproduce allowed her to thrive, rather than burn out.

In This Episode, You’ll See:

  • The importance of identifying your personal capacity as a leader and creating boundaries that protect your energy and well-being.
  • How surrendering to a sustainable pace can lead to long-term success, both professionally and personally.

🎯 2 Ways High-Capacity Leaders Can Identify and Surrender Their Need to Maximize:

1. Recognize the Red Flags of Overproduction.

Pay attention to the quiet signals: persistent exhaustion, decreased creativity, irritability, or a sense that your “yes” is outrunning your peace. These are invitations to pause and ask:

“Am I maximizing out of trust, or out of fear?”

When you’re driven by fear of falling behind, it’s a sign to surrender. Surrender doesn’t stunt growth—it strengthens the root system for future fruit.

2. Redefine Success by Your Values, Not Just Output.

Ask: “What matters most to me in this season? Does my current pace reflect that?”
Faith reminds us that God can do more with our little surrendered than our hustle-driven excess. Healthy rhythms aren’t about doing less—they’re about doing what actually matters. Ask yourself and your team:

“What’s fueling us right now—and what’s draining us?”
"What isn't serving us well?"
"Should I be stretching or surrendering?"


These questions shift the culture from constant output to sustainable impact.

Whether you’re a seasoned entrepreneur or a leader just starting out, this episode offers valuable insights into how slowing down and embracing your capacity can actually propel you toward greater success. Tune in now to hear HAVEN’s inspiring story and learn how you, too, can thrive by surrendering.


Rhona is a Certified Primal Question Coach, Speaker, Author, founder @ The Miami Design Studio, International Artist and mom of 4. 

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